We could all use some kindness. Especially after the tumultuous U.S. election. And in the spirit of the upcoming holiday season, try to practice a little kindness and empathy towards yourself and others.
Starting today, tomorrow, Thanksgiving or whenever, just start with these little suggestions around the office:
Day 1: When having a conversation with someone at work, look them in the eyes and listen. Put down your mobile device and really listen to what they are saying. This is called active listening and is unfortunately becoming a long-lost art.
Day 2: If you know a coworker who is struggling with something in their lives, let them know that while you may not understand what he or she is going through, that you will be there to listen to them if they want.
Day 3: Write a thank-you note to a colleague, describing what they did to help you and give it to them.
Day 4: Give someone at the office a genuine compliment.
Day 5: Clean up a mess in the break room or around that office that you did not make.
Day 6: Hold the door or elevator for someone.
Day 7: Smile at the people you see around the office today.
Day 8: Ask someone how you can help them today.
Day 9: Introduce yourself to someone new.
Day 10: Tell a coworker to have a good day.
Day 11: Bring a peer a coffee, a water, a soda or whatever their drink of choice is.
Day 12: Thank someone for making a difference.
Day 13: Write a friendly message on a Post-It and stick it somewhere for everyone to see.
Day 14: Tell someone all of the reasons you like them.
Day 15: Acknowledge the excellent service you received by writing a note to that person’s manager.
Day 16: Bring in food or snacks to your office or to your department.
Day 17: Say “Good Morning” to someone in the elevator or someone in the building.
Day 18: Sometimes we need to get away from the office for a short amount of time to re-set. If you see a peer struggling, take them to a nearby coffee shop for a break.
Day 19: Humor is healing. Tell someone a joke or send them a funny meme.
Day 20: If a coworker leaves something on the printer, bring it to them.
Day 21: Say “please” and “thank you” and mean it!
Day 22: Once you have read your monthly magazine subscription, leave it in the break room for someone else to enjoy.
Day 23: Take a coworker out for lunch.
Day 24: Pass along a great book you have finished reading to a peer at work.
Day 25: Take a walk around the office and just say “hi” to people. Bonus: get some steps in.
Day 26: Pick up a piece of litter you see in the hallway or common space.
Day 27: Interject when you hear gossip with a kind remark.
Day 28: Give someone their work time back and cancel a meeting.
Day 29: Lend your expertise to someone who needs it, whether in the moment or as a mentor.
Day 30: Respond timely even if you say to the other person that you received their email and give a deadline for your response. People like to know they aren’t being ignored.
Day 31: Don’t leave someone hanging. If you are not down with their idea, say so. Be honest.